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Trust, and space.
The last post was bad. I know. I cannot be bothered in writing about the sad state our music have fallen into. It would bore the very skeletal being within you, forcing whatever energy left in your subconscious mind to stop reading.
And, I want to compensate for my last post. It was really bad. Mistakes dot the post like thorns on a durian, the post was also enveloped in a fog-like boringness. There is no saving that one. My worst of my entire blogging career..
Hence the rectification. I want to rant today, on a particular aspect of a relationship. No, maybe two. They're trust, and "space"
Trust is self explanatory. But space.. is like giving your girl / boy some time alone, not intruding 24 hours a day, 7 days a week in the duration of your relationship.
As with all my previous posts.. I want to keep this short and sweet as well. Just to give you readers that are already into a relationship, getting into one, or haven't got yet, a glimpse of reality.
Just what is relationship without trust? I mean, don't have it at all, if you cannot trust your boy or your girl. Really, if she cannot tell you that she's having a threesome with a white guy and a black guy, I don't think you need to tell her you're screwing her mother and sister in her house. End the relationship. End of story. Find someone else who's willing to share their life with you, someone that is trustable, and you, don't be keeping a wardrobe full skeletons instead.
Trust her. Or if you don't, give her the chance to let her prove that she is a trustable person. Vice versa for the girls as well. I know many of you have a short fuse especially during "that time of the month" or "28 days".. Be cool.
And...
Spaces. We need our own space. All humans do. Even the beggars at the roadside, they have their own space, you don't see any other beggars coming to intrude in. Okay, maybe not that kind of space. I mean here is, personal. A time in our daily lives, where we escape to do what we like. Like watching football, a night out with the guys or saving the world by blowing up a dangerous nuclear missile from the confines of the PC in a bedroom.
Ladies and gents,
I want to tell you that, to give each other time to miss each other. Take note: Absence, makes the heart grow fonder. This sentence never rang any truer than it is now. If you keep pouring messages and calls every hour of the day, 7 days a week, you would say you are showering your life for her, by taking note of her daily activities.
I would effin say that it is a big waste of your parents' money in phone bills (or prepaid cards), a complete waste of your time and your partner (because it makes you look like someone who has nothing else to do) and lastly, you sound like a needy freakish/stalker/obsessed person.
*exhales loudly*
I think that all there is to say on this matter.. take note ladies and gents. I know, these kinds of advice comes for free almost everyday (TheStar on Sundays and Wednesdays), or monthly (CLEO, HerWorld, Seventeen, ForHimMagazine "FHM" and OMG, Galaxie).
No point you look at horoscopes at the back flap of a Galaxie magazine or in the Star Two section of TheStar if you cannot even rectify thine mistakes.
Said too much. Probably this be my longest ever.rofl.
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